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When someone’s emotions are off the charts too early and they can’t stop thinking about this person, one way they deal with this problem is by just ending the relationship. This could be the right option for you, but this can’t always be the option for you if you want to be married one day.

Every relationship goes through an awkward grey phase where the man and woman are feeling each other out. They are both interested, but neither of them wants to express their feelings too strongly yet because neither of them wants to get hurt or scare the other person off. This confusion, this ambiguity, this uncertainty of where this relationship or potential relationship is headed is all very normal. Yes, sometimes it just needs to end if it lingers too long and there is no end in sight to the confusion. But just because you get confused about your future with someone does not mean God is telling you to move on.

Sometimes you just need to hang in there. Sometimes you need to live in the confusion for a while. Sometimes God is building your character, building your patience, and building your ability to hear his voice during hard times. If you run too quickly you may be missing out on something good God wants for you. As Romans 5:3-5 explains:

"Not only that, but we rejoice in our sufferings, knowing that suffering produces endurance, and endurance produces character, and character produces hope, and hope does not put us to shame, because God’s love has been poured into our hearts through the Holy Spirit who has been given to us.”

If we move on too quickly from the trials God allows us to go through, we will miss out on this process of spiritual growth. Oftentimes this same principle is true when it comes to relationships.

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