Step 1: We must trustfully acknowledge the process that has created our present, and is affecting our future.
Step 2: We must change our attitude.
Step 3: We must not become emotionally reclusive.
Step 4: We must get to the heart of the matter.
Step 5: We must seek spiritual wisdom.
Step 6: Learn from the experience and trust God through it and in it.
Step 7: You must learn how to give under pressure.
Step 8: If you are going to climb out of the hole stop digging it deeper.
Step 9: Find a reliable Counselor.
Step 10: Learn to be content with less.
Step 11: You must learn how to attack your debts.