http://www.jamesflanders.com/4/post/2014/01/the-preacher-said-you-hate-me.html

"Be diligent to present thyself approved to God -- a workman irreproachable, rightly dividing the word of the truth." (2nd Timothy 2:15 Young's Literal Translation)

Have you ever gotten a headache from wrestling with apparent contradictions in doctrine? Could the verse above hold the cure for the pain? I believe so.

In this audio James Flanders talks about contradictory religious doctrines and how to resolve them.

https://itunes.apple.com/us/artist/james-flanders/id392064778