Marriage is a blessing but it's highly disregarded in today's society. I'm not trying to tell anybody what to do or whatever, but please stay devoted to your husband/wife and children if you have any. If you need help, ask God for strength. Marriage is not always easy. Sometimes you'll have to push pass your feelings and compromise(make some sacrifices) to make things work. Doing this will show that you're trustworthy. It's not about one individual, it requires two people. If one gives love, then the other should do the same back. Love is unconditional. When things get tough, do all you can to save your marriage. After you've done all that you could do and it's still not working, then a devorce would be an option. Why stay in a marriage if it's not working, or if it's life-threatening to you or/and your children? But other than that, make an effort to save it. In marriage, nothing comes between you and your spouse, nothing. Like my pastor once said, "Your mate is for a divine date for a divine destiny." God has a divine plan for you and your partner. If you have any children, please take care of them. You don't have to be a perfect parent, but at lease show them that you care for their well-being. If you put God first in your marriage, you can overcome anything.

"But from the beginning of the creation, God made them male and female. For this cause shall a man leave his father and mother, and cleave to his wife; and they shall be one flesh: so then they are no more two, but one flesh. What therefore God has joined together, let no man(or woman or anything)put asunder." Mark 10:6-9.