Why do some Christians seem to enjoy causing conflict? How can I express disagreement, even strong disagreement, without being divisive? Why does it seem like there is so much strife in the church?

When is it appropriate for Christians to agree to disagree? - https://www.gotquestions.org/agree-to-disagree.html

What does it mean to contend for the faith? - https://www.gotquestions.org/contend-for-the-faith.html

In the Christian faith, what issues are truly worth debating? - https://www.gotquestions.org/Christian-debating.html