Quote by Lee Strobel

“Boy, it sounds like you know a lot more about this than I do, and you’ve raised some interesting points. My problem is that this is all new information for me. I wonder if you could do me a favor. I really want to understand your points, but you need to slow down a bit so I get them right. Would you take a moment to carefully explain your view and also your reasons for it to help me understand better? When you respond this way,2 it buys you valuable time. It also shows that you’re not afraid of the other person and you’re interested in taking his view seriously. So make sure you understand the ideas. Write them down if you need to. When all your questions have been answered, end the conversation by saying these magic words: “Thanks. Now let me think about it. Maybe we can talk more later.” These words—now let me think about it—are like magic because once you say them, you free yourself from any obligation to respond further at the moment. All the pressure is gone, since you’ve already pleaded ignorance. You have no obligation to answer, refute, or reply once you’ve admitted you’re outgunned and need to give the issue more thought.”